Trust

The twanging of life
Second part  : trust

Nothing is holier and nothing is more exemplary than a beautiful and strong trust with someone who believes on you, because all the world is made of faith on each other and trust on each other but as we know that, trust isn't for everyone, it is for those who really aren't like a mirror for us because once the mirror has taken a place in our relationship everything will end.

What I am trying to say is, the beginning of trust is to let those who you love to be perfectly themselves, the resolution isn't to twist them to fit our own image so people do mistake when they trust only for those who are trying to change, it isn't important to change yourself in order to have someone's truat, If in loving and trusting them we don't love and trust what they are, but only their potential likeness to ourselves, then we don't love and trust them we only love the reflection of ourselves that we find on them then we only trust whatever that reflection is there and once it is gone, trust is gone also.

Cheating isn't only the enemy of trust as people believe but choosing a bad person to trust on from the beginning is the biggest enemy, if you think deeply you will find that, cheating and lying aren't struggles, they are reasons to break up and people cheat in any arena, they diminish themselves and they threaten their own self-esteem and their relationships with others by undermining the trust they have in their ability to succeed and in their ability to be true so choosing a good person from the beginning, leads you to be in the saving side.

Finally don't trust people who don't trust on themselves, there is an African saying which is : be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt. So it is obvious that the only one who deserves to be trusted first is yourself, in order to shine your brightest light in this life, you have to trust on who you are and your abilities, capacities and capabilities and what you can do and never be bullied into silence and never underestimate yourself and your values and accept no one's definition of your mistakes but define your mistakes.