Pain

The twanging of life
Third part : Pain

During the voyage of this life, we face different kinds of feelings and the result is, we have people that are afraid of themselves, of their own reality and their feelings then people talk about how great life is, if it is full of love  but even love hurts, so pain is the reality of this life and not to forget that, feelings are disturbing and the fact is, we are taught that pain is evil and dangerous and we have to overcome and love is the treatment of pain but always I wonder by asking myself this question "how can they deal with love if they are afraid to feel pain ?!".

Pain is meant to wake us up every morning, every minute and every second and people try to hide their pain but they are wrong, pain is something to carry, like your phone and you feel your strength in the experience of pain so it is all in "how do you carry it" and not to forget that, pain is a feeling and your feelings are a part of you, faculty they are your own reality so denying your pain is a kind of denying yourself.

I remembered someone asked me "why this life is full of pain ?, why even pain was created in this life ?" at that time I couldn't answer because I had no any sense to go deep and deeper but his questions were rambling at my mind  and an answer came .. "behind every beautiful thing, there is some kind of pain", from pain the greatest people have been born, from pain the greatest ideas have applicated, form the pain of your mother you have come to this life, without pain we will never be able to understand the light of life, because of pain we can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing so pain is the most important thing in the universes, it is greater than survival, greater than love and greater even than the beauty it brings about, without pain there can be no pleasure, without sadness there can be no happiness, without misery there can be no beauty and without these things life is endless, hopeless, doomed and damned so whatever the kind of pain which you have in your life, carry it and not to deny it and don't forget "it is all in, how do you carry it".

Finally, there is a thin line that separates laughing and pain, comedy and tragedy, humor and hurt but we don't feel it, we don't see it .. Ernest says; the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too so such lines like this you have to take care about it.